| What you cannot compromise on for long-term peace, alignment, and growth. |
Qualities that add joy but are not dealbreakers if absent. |
Traits or behaviors you cannot accept as they harm your wellbeing or values. |
| - strong financial decision making |
Hobbies, looks, language fluency, style, or similar.Shared interests that are fun but not fundamental. |
- no smoking / controlling behviour / aggressive temper |
| - financial stability |
- cooks well ? |
- no impulsive financial purchases - handle money with caution |
| How must my partner treat me when I’m sad or stressed? |
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| What beliefs or behaviours will support my life goals? |
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| What financial, career, or family approach is essential for me?Minimum spiritual, moral, or personal growth values needed? |
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- no unstructured loans - online or through person |