1. I’d get crystal clear on what I want ✨

I’d write out my future vision for my life and the relationship I want to have so that I choose a man who wants the same as me.

Clarity = discernment.

2. I’d create a dating plan 📝

I’d create a dating plan that keeps me showing up in a steady and consistent way.

I’d put space for dating into my calendar plus time to be on dating apps each week & pursue hobbies that would help me meet new people.

Dating successfully isn’t luck, it’s a skill.

3. I’d treat dating like a numbers game 📈

Because I’d know that the more men I go on dates with = the more likely that I’d meet a good match.

I wouldn’t get wrapped up in the first guy who I have a connection with. I’d respectfully and intentionally date multiple men to discover who is a fit in the long term.

4. I’d date outside my usual “preferences” 🔓

I’d get clear on my top 3 non-negotiable values and make sure any man I date aligns with them.

But outside of that, I’d be open.

I’d know that the person who I fall for might be outside of my usual “type” and welcome that possibility.

5. I’d look for a man who is excited to be a husband and father 💞

I’d choose a man who lights up when he talks about building a life, raising kids, and leading a family.

6. I’d embody my healthy femininity in dating 🌹

Which means showing both my softness & my feminine strength.

It means revealing my heart when appropriate and allowing him to lead. It also means having boundaries and not shying away from uncomfortable moments when they might come up.

7. I’d root myself in real self-worth 🙏🏻