1. keeps his word without needing reminders
2. consistency = stable men
3. can handle difficult conversations - no ghosting / no blame shifting
4. we’re sorting this out energy - needs to handle stress
5. takes full responsibility of words and actions - accountability is for men
6. emotionally safe for you to be soft and feminine with him - safety though his presence
7. he protects your peace - nervous system feels safe
8. respects your independence
9. leads but doesn't dim your light - has a mission greater than you !!
10. purpose keeps him grounded - not lost
11. no validation - loyalty in action and words
12. decisive and clear with intentions - aware of where i stand with him , not stuck in guessing
13. masculinity is not about dominance
14. financially responsible - not flashy , builds wealth without greed, socially responsible
15. builds , protects , and invests in personal growth
16. emotionally intelligent - can recognize what he is feeling , name it and just not keep reacting to it
17. needs no mothering - protect himself & others, leading without loudness
18. presence over ego - generous & forward thinking
19. grow with you & not control you - loves to see me succeed
20. trauma is not a reason to hurt others